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Post by Truttle on Oct 13, 2011 0:30:11 GMT -5
So basically, it's like this...my dad has given me an ultimatum. He tells me that I gotta get something by March or it all goes sour. So I'm running out of options. He had suggested the army and I thought perhaps this is my last resort. I've been considering it a lot. While I am scared, I'm also thinking that this might be good for me. I've got someone waiting for me and if this goes well, it might be just what I need to get together with that person. So I've gone to a recruiter and they say that I'm completely qualified to go. I haven't signed the paperwork just yet though. So in the meantime I've started training to that this won't be murder on my part. I've clearly gotten out of shape.
So I'd appreciate all your comments, suggestions, questions, and concerns on the matter.
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Post by Blaise Zebrataur on Oct 13, 2011 3:14:46 GMT -5
Well bro this is some major stuff to hear.As I have talked with you personally about this,I am both proud and worried about hearing this as I would anyone else I am friends with.Going into the Army is a big deal for anyone to do.Stuff could happen,just like anything else in life,but I know that I will support and back you up if you do decide to join.
The way I see it,there are pros and cons to this just like anything else.The pros would be it would get you ready and more trained to be a cop down the line if you wished to go for it afterward and probably more but I can't think of any now.The cons would be going of course and something happening,you don't like it after awhile and go AWOL or something(not saying you would,just looking at it from all points) or maybe getting turned down,even though they said you are qualified to go.
All in all,in the end I will do as I said before,continute to support you no matter what you do Truttle..always will.*hugs.*
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Post by Epesi on Oct 13, 2011 15:18:03 GMT -5
While I don't know the full details of your situation, it sounds like the pros of joining outweigh the cons. This could be a wonderful experience for you, as I know you've struggled with depression and low self-confidence; gaining new skills and experience, not to mention getting into shape physically, will all greatly build up your confidence, and confidence will help you to conquer depression. On top of that, if I'm not mistaken you'll have access to counseling to help you through it. And of course, there's the job experience and education opportunities.
What you get out of it will depend on what you put in, so don't look at it as a last resort; look at it as a gateway to positive change and a better life. Nothing worth doing is easy or risk-free.
Anyway, that's my take on it. I hope you come to a decision that you will ultimately be happy with. Good luck!
Edited just to add that to get out there and change your life like this takes a lot of courage, and joining the military even moreso; I wanted to say that I have a lot of respect for that. Whatever you choose, I hope it works out for the best.
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Post by Nayla-Naylie on Oct 13, 2011 23:19:02 GMT -5
I read something about this from your DA page. I'm sorry I didn't get a chance at commenting it, but I was too shock to do it cause going to the military will mean you'll have lesser time arriving online just to chat with us.
Oreius and Epesi already spoken the words out of my mouth, so I will try and share something special and honest about this; I actually appreciated the times you have stand up for me when I was going through the tough times as a teenager, and I admire you for that because your like the big brother I never had but always wanted.
And I'm really glad we got to meet at Universal Studios 4 years ago. So in my boldly strong will, I am going to miss you very much bro! Stay safe if you can! *hugs*
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Post by Truttle on Oct 17, 2011 16:27:48 GMT -5
Thanks you guys for such wonderful comments and best wishes. I most certainly see this as a great opportunity. As I said, I've considered it a lot and am doing this for myself. I will miss you guys while I'm away, but I will be back so wish me luck for when I go! ;D
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Post by Blaise Zebrataur on Oct 17, 2011 17:09:55 GMT -5
So you have decided to join bro? I am proud of you and do hope you'll be safe and ok.
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Post by EbonyPatriot on Oct 20, 2011 11:47:31 GMT -5
Ack sorry I took so long to reply; I haven't been feeling well.  A lot of my family's been in the military: both of my grandfathers, five great-uncles, an uncle and two cousins. O f those, most were military, but one of them was a marine, two were in air force, and one was in the navy. In addition, my Mom worked near the base in Killeen, Texas, and so encountered a lot of soldiers. It's a hard job. You run the risk of being killed. You run the risk of having your friends killed while you stand by them. You run the risk of having it tear your emotionally as well. Even something as simple as car backfiring can bring terrible memories to a soldier. You run the risk of being injured, losing a foot or an eye. My grandfather lost much of hearing in the war. It means a lot of fear for your family and friends. It means never knowing if the person coming near your camp is a harmless civilian or intends to kill you. It means long nights of staying awake on sentry duty. It means having to make due with less. (This is something my grandfather faced and, since I don't know who we may be fighting in the years to come, I figure I should mention it as well: my grandfather was first generation, with both of his parents from oversea. They had to ask if he'd being willing to fight and possibly kill his own uncles and cousins). It means being veyr lonely and homesick, something my Mom saw with the soliders in Killeen. I'd worry about you, I'd worry about you being hurt or worse. I know I've gone on about the cons for a while, but there are pros as well. It's a noble thing, to defend your family. I know for my own depression, just doing things help immensely so it may well help. (I would caution you though that it might hurt as well). It has quite a few benefits: the pay and benefits are nice. It helps on job applications. Though my family doesn't talk about it; they are proud to have served. Thsi is a good site for information about the military: www.military.com/Recruiting/Home/0,13387,,00.htm I hope the best for you Truttle.  |
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Post by Truttle on Jan 11, 2012 23:19:40 GMT -5
Sorry I didn't notice your response EP. I really appreciate your concern and I am so happy from everyone who responded. Thanks you guys.
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Post by Blaise Zebrataur on Jan 12, 2012 3:43:26 GMT -5
No matter what your choice is in the end Truttle, I know everyone here on AAAB will stand beside you 100% on whatever you decide.
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Post by EbonyPatriot on Feb 21, 2012 14:44:34 GMT -5
Ack sorry this reply is so late. That's okay Truttle, it's great to hear from you. ^^ If you don't mind me asking, what branch are you considering: army, navy, marine, air force, or coast guard? ^^ |
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Post by Truttle on Feb 21, 2012 16:30:56 GMT -5
The Army. =3
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Post by EbonyPatriot on Feb 21, 2012 18:19:38 GMT -5
Heh my grandpa would be proud ^_^ he was a ww2 vet and always said that the marines were confused: camps are temporary establishments but the marines called their forts camps.  (Heheh, I'm not sure how the marine in my family about that though ). |
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Post by Night Bear on Feb 21, 2012 18:25:25 GMT -5
Personally I'm not fond of the American military. We give way too much money to them. That money could be used for more practical things, like more schools or more hospitals. There's no reason why the American military needs as much money as they get nowadays.
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