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Post by Harlequin on Feb 17, 2007 22:12:28 GMT -5
I stopped caring at the moment.
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Thanks Nadine. Thanks for ruining it all for me.
See you ya'll when I cool down. </3
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Post by Night Bear on Feb 17, 2007 23:55:58 GMT -5
You don't really have to go. I did see those posts between you and her. Nadine did go too far and I feel that she has broken one of Spectrum's rules, to treat others the way she would like to be treated. I'm sorry she acted like that towards you Mayu. I hope you feel better.
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Post by Ken'ichi on Feb 18, 2007 0:01:02 GMT -5
I apologize for the recent incident, Maylu. Like Night Bear said, you don't have to leave.
I'm sorry for the uncomfortable incident and may you return and continue enjoying your visit with us here at Awaken as a Bear.
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Post by kiriu on Feb 18, 2007 1:34:41 GMT -5
Nuuu... Mayu don't go
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Post by Harlequin on Feb 18, 2007 10:37:50 GMT -5
Hn. I was told by Kiriu that Nadine was banned, there for, I have nothing to worry about. I'll come back.. sorry to worry eveyone, or upset anyone. I just didn't feel like dealing with her.
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Post by Del'aki on Feb 18, 2007 10:48:24 GMT -5
I don't know what happened between you and Nadine..... But I know that running from it won't help a thing..... There is no point in being enemies, we all have our differences and I suggest that you and Nadine live with your differences.... No one is perfect and I'm sure that Nadine didn't intend to hurt you or vice-versa, you didn't intend to hurt Nadine.... So please don't leave, Maju..... You can run from your problems, but some day they will catch up with you, the best thing you can do is settle this now.... Try to talk things over with Nadine.... And when I say talk, I mean talk, not flame or blame or such yelling at each other and blaming each other for all the evils of this world, is not the way to solve anything....... I would hate to see you leave, even though I might not know you that well Hopefully you and Nadine can resolve this conflict, without the use of more harsh words......
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Post by Harlequin on Feb 18, 2007 11:24:11 GMT -5
What YOU need to know, my friend, is yes. She DID ntend to hurt me. I simply gave her a kind comment about her character, and you know what she did? Blamed me for 'flaming' her character because I said it was unusual for a Black and Purple bear. ;; Is that a flame? No. I don't think so. I'm an opened minded person, and yes, I did think Kenai/Nadine had it's cute points. I just happened to come across Kenai/Kia before hand, and become attached to it. So I tend to choose to look at it before anything else. Oh dear, I'm such a horrible person aren't I?! Like I said before, I'm open minded. I look at other couples, like or dislike them, I try to give as much support as I can. Anyone who REALLY knows me should know that by now.. like with my L&S fan coupling with Leroy/Tyrant, a lot of my friends have Leroy mates, I support them ALL. I'm sick of being wrongly ACCUSED of being a flamer, whe have any of you seen my flame?! Ever?! That's right. I never did. THAT'S why I'm angry, she's so one sided about it that she hinks I flamed her couple. In my book, saying something is 'Unusual' and 'Flaming a character' are two completely diffrent things. If anyone should get yelled at for flaming, it's her! You should've HEARD the things she would say about Mayu. Simply because she looks a little more Orange than brown. God friggen' forbid I make her fur tone lighter, to show her more petite and weak nature. GOD. FORBID. Not only did she flame Mayu, but Kia too! For being WHITE. What. The. Heck. I rest my case. </3
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Post by Ken'ichi on Feb 18, 2007 11:40:41 GMT -5
I understand how Nadine can be, this incident was like the fourth one she's caused. And despite all the times I've warned her, this was the last straw. I hate to ban people but I was left with no other choice.
Anyway, I wish this would be buried and we can resume with the friendly community we're known to have. So I kindly ask for a cease and desist about this couple argument and learn to co-exist without having to insult and flame one another. I know how it started and saw how it went down around here, and I would like it to stop, I do not wish to ban any other members.
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Post by Del'aki on Feb 18, 2007 12:00:58 GMT -5
Now now calm down, I'm not accusing you of anything (well atleast not intentionally)..... My intentions are not to make anyone angry So I apologize if I sounded like that in my previous post... I was simply saying that its not worth running from your problems or issues...... We are people of many different cultures, and because of that we have different views of everything..... I'm not saying you that you flamed or didn't flame her character, but obviously she was offended by your statement..... I'm not saying that it was wrong of you to comment her character, because you sure do have that right, but people do make mistakes and misunderstandings do occur...... Now because we are from many cultures, what you might understand as a compliment, might be offending to others...... Yes perhaps Nadine did go to far, but I'm sure thats because she misread your statement / compliment, and acted as if you were threatening her character.... Please don't misunderstand anything of what I'm trying to say... I'm not here to offend anyone...... Anyways.... Ken'ichi is god around here, so don't expect more comments from me on this issue.... EDIT: Talking about horrible people.... I'm horrible.... Horrible at solving conflicts, so forgive me if what I'm saying doesn't make any sense!
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Post by Harlequin on Feb 18, 2007 12:20:56 GMT -5
No. Your not a horrible person, nor are you horrible as resolving conflicts, thank you for your support del'aki. I'm just offended that she would even THINK that way.
I didn't mean to raise my voice, I'm just under a lot of stress. And this whole Nadine thing didn't make things any better. -sigh-
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Post by Ken'ichi on Feb 18, 2007 14:21:25 GMT -5
We understand, Mayu. No need to apologize. We're glad to hear you've decided to stay here with us.
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Post by nadine on Feb 19, 2007 18:56:29 GMT -5
*Sighs* I can't believe I'm doing this. Mayu, I....I'm sorry for what happened. There's not that much for me to say, so....I'm gonna spilled it out. Mayu....I'm sorry we got off the wrong foot. I'm not very good at saying sorry cause it's hard for me. Normally, I'm stink at this with these crazy aplogizes, but....I guess it was for my own good. Ken'chi and Del'aki ask me to do this, so.....just accept my aplogzy and be done with it okay? There, I'm done. Oh and if it makes you feel any better, go ahead and watch this Lion King 2 music video. It features the song from BB2 called It Will Be Me. I'm sure you've heard of it before if you've seen the BB sequel of course. I figure it will help you get your mind off after what I did was harsh to you. www.youtube.com/watch?v=Orj4tcyTCbQ
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Post by Harlequin on Feb 20, 2007 11:56:36 GMT -5
It's alright, Nadine. As I said before, I'm a forgiving and accepting person. I soppose I was a bit harsh as well, but, as you know, I'm also quite sensitive. When you thought I was I was flaming your coupling, I had to defend myself.. and if there one thing about me I know, I'm horrible at keeping my temper contained. I've had a horrible past, with abusive parents and a neglected life. So, I've become the person that will suddenly jump to violence. I don't WANT it to be this way, but, It happens.
I forgive you. Very nice video, by the way. Just, try to listen and hear me out more often then just snapping at me first thing. I don't hate you, nor do I hate your coupling. I find it cute, really, I do. I just find a Black and Purple bear amusing.. xD In a GOOD way. I hpe this clears things up.
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Post by Del'aki on Feb 20, 2007 12:05:32 GMT -5
I'm happy to hear, the two of you found a way to end your fighting I'm sorry to hear the Abusive Parents part though...... But do know, your always welcome here
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Post by nadine on Feb 20, 2007 20:22:45 GMT -5
A abusive life?! Dang I didn't know. That's harsh. I'm sorry to hear that Mayu. Really I am. I wish I knew about that sooner or later. But..... ....I guess I can accept your forgiveness. No harm done I suppose ^^;
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